Push The Strength

Push The Strength

At the present, where the crisis came and went and challenges present in the 24 hours before the eyes, each of us would need to maintain and increase the power of self, teams and organizations. Nevertheless, we see that many people do not realize the potential and power of himself, even not feel it is important to seriously explore and find strengthWe even sometimes get caught digging our weaknesses, our shortcomings discussed, teams and even our own people, until finally believe that we are inferior, weak and helpless. Is not it very dangerous?
. In a reflection session, my friend who is very smart and talented had faltered when asked to describe what is often cited her mother as her strength. Apparently, many of us who have looked for first in his mind, whatever, or if " lucky 'parents say they are about power.. I was reminded of my late mother, a very "strength based" orientation emphasized the strength of each child. My brother saw not too strong in the analysis, once trained skilled and agile, schooled in vocational, in magangkan the company of a friend, so he could survive and even become advocates brother and sister in college. In the meantime, because my brothers often discourage me mentally, otherwise my mother always said that I was a brave.. When I brought the memory of the words that my mother, I immediately could feel the muscles stretch, face glowing, energy broke, so I feel a life force.. I realized then that this was the "life giving forces that underlie all efforts in my career life.
Realize the power
When asked the question "what is your strength", a lot of friends with a laugh said, "I am strong at all ..." Or, "My Strength equally ..." or even "no things stand out, all the mediocre ... "Not aware of the uniqueness of oneself can be shown how many people see this life was so" taken for granted "him. Life as if viewed as a game, call it football, where the ball and field size was standard, the rules are fixed, and anyone can kick a ball and practice with the same reference. If this happens, the individual's unconscious was not appreciate his ability as a capital to create the best moments or "peak experience" in his personal life, work, community, too. Imagine how much harm if we are not up to explore "life-giving forces throughout our lives. By feeling, watching and living every moment in life, we were able to maintain the vitality of our lives and have the opportunity to provide "color", to create "animated" sophisticated in our lives. Is not as modern humans we need to look far into the future, create and describe the vision and design of our actions? A beautiful girl with talent, modeling exam and passed. He aspires to be top model photos and modeling of time to enjoy his profession for a while. Some time ago, a friend met him and found that he had worked as an SPG showroom. He argued with the SPG at least more regular income. Are not we can prove that a person can easily miss his strength, just the chance of passing before his eyes, without striving to make "dreams come true" for him?
Avoid language deficit
Representative people watching a marathon interview a little more would make us feel down. Imagine, for months we are invited to participate in scene after scene in which board members to each other trying to drop each other. Every question asked to dig "what's wrong" it so we are constantly presented shortcomings, failures, to the extent We also feel pessimistic and make sense inferior to settle in our lives every day. In fact, in moments of crisis like this, we are strongly encouraged to be constructive.. Inevitably, the discussion is a prolonged and exhausting a great effect on how we see the world, how we respond to and accept the reality. A researcher to record the results of the survey that in the last 30 years there is a significant increase in the number of the words 'depression', 'anxiety', 'failure' in various articlesIn contrast, recorded a significant reduction in the writings that make the word 'happy' "maybe what looks like a symptom of depression, negative thinking, the disease itself," he commented.
Dare Positive
had to convince and prove that only by using the questions and the questions and the positive statements we can change a person's decision. rather than "what is needed?", We immediately asked "what is the best?" Instead of dwelling on the cause, we ask "what improvements we want to create?" As such we are not oriented to the problem but rather focus to create the future and increase strength. And in fact this phenomenon is very magical. It seems we need to always remember that a question or statement which would sharply change a person's life circumstances both positive and negative blood. We must realize that we have a choice to raise our kids, work teams, companies, even people with the choice of words more positive so that we all can cultivate a positive attitude and constructively deal with existing challenges, not the other dragged himself into the 'darkness'. “Ultimately, we create the future we imagine.” "Ultimately, we create the future we imagine."